My beautiful Spanish/Catalan sisters,
You are beautiful as you are!
I love your dark hair! I love it's wildness and healthy glow. I love it's thickness and it suits your fair skin beautifully.
Your grandmothers and mothers were influenced by Hollywood glamour and the images of Monroe, Grace Kelly and the Swedish sirens of 80's TV. But you don't have to believe that nonsense!
Be willing to embrace your natural brilliant radiance! Give it a chance! Do you want to pass on your 'you are not good enough' feeling to your daughters? Someone must break the chain and you are strong enough.